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Decide what help you can offer
You do not need to have your person yet. Start by getting clear on what you can offer and what you need. When the right moment comes, your plan is ready to share.
HOW IT WORKS
Set the agreement once. The ask is already answered.
You decide what you can offer. You send it to one parent you already know. They see it, agree to what works for them. The plan is set before anything actually comes up.
2
Send it to someone you’d want to count on
The hardest part isn’t finding someone. It’s making the ask feel normal.
3
Everyone knows what they signed up for.
Not a vague maybe. A real agreement. Both of you, on the same page, before anything comes up.
4
No scrambling. No explaining. Just the plan you already made.
When something comes up, you already know who to call. And they already said yes.
Line up my peopleFree to start. Set up your plan now. Your people will be ready when you need them.
In group texts, you're guessing who can help.
With Nura, everyone already agreed what's okay.
When something comes up
School closing early today
Pickup at 12:45
You need someone in the next hour
What your circle already
agreed on
agreed on
After-school pickups are okay
After-school pickups are okayUp to 3 swaps a month
Sick days are a personal call
It’s more like a standing yes than a formal agreement.
Who can help
Jane can help
Samantha can help
Two parents already said yes before you even asked.