Susan
Emma's mom · school pickup
Tue-Thu · short notice okay
FOR THE SMALL GAPS
No strangers. No marketplace.
Just people you already see.

3 familiar families · part of the plan
Susan
Emma's mom · school pickup
Tue-Thu · short notice okay
Neal
Jamal's dad · camp pickup
Mon & Wed · 2-5pm
Chloe
Neighbor · after-school help
Fridays
When something comes up
School closing early today
Pickup at 12:45
After-school pickups are okay
Up to 3 swaps a month
Sick days are a personal call
It’s more like a standing yes than a formal agreement.
Who can help
WHAT THIS LOOKS LIKE
Jane
Emma’s mom, PS 87
HELPS WITH
Susan
Soccer team mom
HELPS WITH
Sophia
Neighbor on 80th street
HELPS WITH
Add more people when you’re ready
One person is enough to start. A Democracy Prep classroom parent, a family from your kid's grade, someone you see at pickup each week. You probably already know exactly who.
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You do not need to have your person yet. Start by getting clear on what you can offer and what you need. When the right moment comes, your plan is ready to share.

2
The hardest part isn’t finding someone. It’s making the ask feel normal.

3
Not a vague maybe. A real agreement. Both of you, on the same page, before anything comes up.

4
When something comes up, you already know who to call. And they already said yes.
Set up my planFree to start. Set up your plan now. Your people will be ready when you need them.

You’re not paying anyone. You’re showing up for someone the way you want them to show up for you.
No score-keeping. Just showing up when it counts.
"A few of us pitched in for supplies, and every Wednesday after school Sarah would have the kids over for Wild Crafts. An hour and a half of crafts."
Brittany, mom of two
Questions

START SMALL
Choose a part of the week that keeps getting tight. Add the familiar people who make sense. Shape the ask before you need it.
Start with one momentNo strangers. No marketplace.
Just people already around your week.